@rachel@jonty AHHHHH! I’m a big fan of self hosting but I will never self host my email again (last time I did I was a teenager). It’s a thing that absolutely has to work, and I never want to find myself in a situation where I need to fix a server in order to send or receive an important email.
@rachel@jonty you also have to be able to deliver to big mail providers, and unless you’re also a big mail provider it can be nigh on impossible to resolve delivery issues.