@misty it’s so close to being what I wanted, except
a) there’s still no way to get a list of past reacts
and
b) the notifications are opt out not opt in
Historically my problem with discord is you’d have *extremely important* comms like someone in a crisis asking for a hug look like they were being ignored because no notification + eventual consistency. I sometimes wondered if anyone ended up being concretely harmed by that combo, it seems likely.